Tali Eliany

L'AMOR WOMEN OF POWER

The main goal of L'amor is to encourage every woman to love herself as she is. Every woman is worthy, full of power, strength, and beauty - she simply needs to look within herself and let it radiate to the outside world. This page spotlights women whose life story serves as an inspiration to others.

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Tali Eliany

Ever since I can remember, I was opinionated and independent. I always knew how to pursue my desires, following my own path with deep conviction, excited to embark on real life… until I got married at the age of 23. Very quickly, life sucked me in—I committed to an apartment, got pregnant, and, without even realizing it, I became the little woman who worried about pleasing her husband, taking care of her child, managing the house, cooking, cleaning, educating. My sense of personal ability plummeted. I lost myself—forgot the things I was strong at, the ambitions I once had, and the dreams I had as a child. Over time, negative emotions and gray thoughts surfaced and resurfaced every day—frustration, sadness, and a lack of motivation. I found myself unable to do anything independently, constantly seeking approval from my husband or parents. I was afraid to take initiative, too scared of what others would think if I failed.

How could I suddenly change the rules of the game? What if my husband didn’t agree? I didn’t want to fight with him—I wanted peace. What kind of mother would I be if I did something for myself? Would they think I was neglecting my child? My time already felt stretched—how could I do everything at home and still be the perfect mother and wife? But what even is a perfect mother? With all these thoughts, my self-esteem crumbled, and my confidence was shaken. From a strong, independent woman, I became dependent. I forgot who I was. I sat with myself for days and weeks, thinking and reflecting. Finally, before saying or doing anything, I consulted a divorce lawyer. I asked about my rights, what I could do, and what challenges I might face. I called my previous employers and secured a stable job. I reached out to my family and figured out who could support me and how. I built a safety net for myself. Only then did I sit down to talk to my husband. With a clear, informed decision—we divorced.

I was 26 years old, and everything started over. It was a challenging time. I was alone with a one-and-a-half-year-old baby, living in a rented apartment on the fourth floor with no elevator. I worked a regular job, earning an average salary. I significantly reduced my expenses because I had no extra money. At the same time, I rebuilt my social connections, both old and new. I didn’t have much, but I had the whole world! I finally had myself and was free to do what I wanted. Over time, I rediscovered my passions, my dreams, and what truly made me happy. I met my second husband, studied tax consulting and accounting, and opened a successful business that I still run today. I surrounded myself with a strong, supportive environment and learned to love myself again—as I deserved. I became strong once again.

A few years ago, when I felt that spark again, I decided to study personal development—and discovered a fascinating, magical new world. I realized that If I know what I want, I can make it happen. If I understand the root of my struggles, I can fix and improve. And then, it clicked—I wanted to help women regain their sense of self-sufficiency. To know themselves. To love themselves again. And I wanted to help “save” relationships—because relationships can be saved if both partners are willing and committed to the process. I have the tools, the experience, and the knowledge—and I am passionate about passing them on to more and more women and couples. In recent years, this has become my mission—coaching women after a breakup and coaching couples toward a healthy, fulfilling relationship. My motto is "The biggest barriers we face are the ones we set for ourselves." So, if you find yourself connecting with my story and feeling the desire to change—I am here for you.